For many individuals, the most daunting aspect of meeting someone new is when the conversation comes to a halt, leaving you awkwardly asking those dreaded questions like ‘What’s your favorite color?’ and ‘How many siblings do you have?’ While the “talking stage” is significant, it doesn’t hold a candle to the anxiety of planning a first date.
The most nerve-wracking part for me is deciding on a first date activity that doesn’t involve anyone “coming over. While knowing someone’s favorite color and basic information is essential, having that chat in a restaurant can be uncomfortable. Fortunately, there are a plethora of fun activities that can ignite great conversations. Here are seven exciting first date ideas and locations to explore in Lagos on the weekend or during the week.
1. Play All The Games You Want To Now
Unless you plan to engage in games with your romantic interest, now is the perfect time to indulge in them. Arcades are ideal for a first date, especially if you’re looking for a laid-back and enjoyable atmosphere. Venues like Rufus and Bee or Upbeat Recreation Centre offer a variety of games that can spark friendly competition and facilitate getting to know each other. The nostalgic aspect of arcade games adds to the fun; you can always grab a bite at the food bar afterward.
2. She is a Beauty. He is Class
Looking for a cultural experience for your date? How about visiting the Nike Art Gallery or Yenwa Gallery? Both galleries host exhibitions where you can appreciate stunning artwork while enjoying a glass of wine. It creates an ideal environment for meaningful conversations and discovering a shared love for contemporary art. Something about art galleries exudes beauty and class, much like your budding relationship should.
3. The One Time You’re Allowed To Get Your Hands Dirty
As you will soon find out, a DIY session on your first date is the perfect occasion to get your hands dirty. Forget the mundane dinner-and-a-movie scenario and sign up for a workshop or class together!
Places like Lohn Lagos offer candle-making workshops, Abela provides perfume-making sessions, and Pottery by Ablesworth hosts pottery classes. You could also consider a paint-and-sip event at Breather. These hands-on experiences are fantastic for bonding, and you’ll get a memorable keepsake from the date.
Whether you’re crafting perfume, painting, or trying another craft together, getting your hands dirty is a fun and distinctive way to connect with your date!
4. Let The Waves Take You
If you’re seeking a relaxed and pressure-free first date, consider visiting one of Ilashe’s beaches, such as Ziba, Jara, or Avista. Enjoy the sun, sand, and sea while engaging in a laid-back beach party, a chill beach club, or a tranquil stroll along the shore.
5. Let It Flow! Not Only Your Kayaks; The Vibe, Too
Kayaking in Lagos is an exhilarating outdoor adventure ideal for a date! You and your special someone can enjoy breathtaking views, serene moments, and the chance to spot some wildlife while paddling through the waters. La Campagne Tropicana, Kampari Tours, and Omu Resort are fantastic kayaking locations in Lagos.
6. Love is War! Start Early!
7. It’s Important You Laugh Now
There you have it—seven amazing suggestions to ensure your first date is unforgettable and exciting. Step out! Have fun! Those first-date memories won’t create themselves. Don’t forget to bring a gift.
